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The Tips and Guidance keep your thinking on target and your relationship on a healing path.
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Your words so far are right on the money with what I am going thru. In my opinion for me (actions and feelings) and my spouse (at least how I perceive her opinions of me).
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Here Some of the Topics the Emails Cover
Can I Stop the Affair?
Surviving Infidelity: Charging Neutral
Pain of Infidelity: Knowing his/her “Hole” Helps with Your Infidelity Pain
Confronting the Other Person: Pain or Panacea
Infidelity in Your Marriage: Stop the Devastation by Knowing the Type of Affair
How Do I Confront My Spouse about the Affair?
What is a Good Apology from the Cheating Spouse?
21 Life Lessons from an Infidelity Survivor
4 Shifts you Must Make to EFFECTIVELY Deal with Infidelity
What Everyone Needs to Know about Sexual Addiction
Dare to Be Honest
You are Ok Exactly Where you Are
6 Reasons Being a Basketcase is Normal After Discovery of Infidelity
Holiday Tip #1: Examine Yourself
Holiday Tip #2: There is No Shame in Getting Help
Holiday Tip #3: Accept and Maximize How you Cope
Infidelity Pain: The Key to Hurting Less
It’s Frightening to Truly Love
How Long Will the Pain Last?
You are Not a Bad Person
Affair Recovery: Talking about the Affair
How Do I Get Him/Her to Talk?
Surviving Infidelity: Should We Have Sex?
Healing from Infidelity
Do I Confront the OP?
Infidelity Fears Exist Under Your Pain and Agony Once You Bump Into D-Day (day of discovery?)
Infidelity: Get Your Cheating Spouse to Notice Your Power by Charging Neutral
Infidelity Discovery: From Devastation to Optimism
Surviving Infidelity: 2 Case Studies
Marriage Communication: Getting Your Spouse to Talk
Survive and Recover From Infidelity: Keys to Making Good Decisions
Emotional Affair: Meeting his/her Needs is a Slippery Slope
Your Sexiness is a Trap
What Type of Affair Is It?
Gender and Infidelity
Confronting the Other Person and the Emotional Affair
Will I Ever Trust Again?
Do I Truly Want to be Married to Him/Her?
Overcoming Infidelity in Marriage: Where’s Your Focus?
Sticking to a Routine Can Help Ease the Pain of Infidelity
“I Don’t Want to Say No” and Confronting the Other Person
17 Conditions I Want That Will Create an Emotional Connection
How to Start the Healing with Charging Neutral
Does Plastic Surgery Increase the Likelihood of Infidelity?
Must I Protect My Self?
Does our Culture Promote Infidelity?
“I Need to Prove My Desirability” and Confronting the Other Person
How to Catch a Cheating Husband
The Emotional Affair (personal story)
What Do I Think About in My Worst Moments?
What am I Willing to Tolerate and For How Long?
Confronting the Other Person and the 7 Types of Affair
Finding Strength in the Midst of Infidelity and Tragedy
How Do I Get Him to Talk?
How to Get Rid of the Pain
Marriage is Like a Horse Race
Trust Building: Once a Cheater always a Cheater?
Help for the Emotionally Distant Spouse
Traditional Self Help is Limited – Part 1
Freedom in Marriage
How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Lies?
You Truly Want Love in your Marriage
To Stay or Go?
Marriage and Loss of Freedom
7 Powerful Steps you MUST Take to Recover from Infidelity
Speaking Your “Voice” to Your Spouse
Break Free From the Infidelity Triangle
11 Things You Are Able To Do In A Healthy Marriage
A Key Healing Skill To Use In A Marital Crisis
The Distant Spouse is Either In or Out
Social Media and Cheating
What to do when your Marriage is Failin
Confronting the Other Person Webinar – Intro
Marriage Myths Dispelled: Part 1
Your Marriage Must Reflect Your Terms
Normal People Suffer From Infidelity
Infidelity and Abuse
What is My Strategy for this Type of Affair?
Your Marriage is Lousy: Why that is Normal, and OK – For the Time Being
8 More Communication Blunders That Destroy Intimacy
Emotional Connection without Talking in Your Marriage
Infidelity Advice From a Survivor
More than Relief in Your Marriage
Online Cheating Questions
How Do I Get Rid of the Images?
The Infidelity Journey: Success and Struggle (personal story)
“My Marriage Made Me Do It” and Confronting the Other Person
Marriage Problems and Infidelity: Are You A Chaser?
Speaking your “Voice” to Your Spouse – Part 2
Can I Trust Again? Or…Too Much Damage?
The Intimacy Dance in a Marriage
Help Me Fix My Relationship! How to Connect Emotionally with Your Spouse
The Distant Spouse: I Don’t want to Talk
Respect and Saving a Broken Marriage
Infidelity in Marriage: Key Points in Infidelity Recovery
Marriage Myths Dispelled: Part 2
Types of Affairs: Affair #1 – My Marriage Made Me Do It
The Power of Internet Cheating
Marriage advice to Keep on Track to Save Your Marriage
Your Lousy Marriage…Continued
22 Qualities That Create Emotional Connection in a Marriage
“I Fell Out of Love” and Confronting the Other Person
Emotional Distance in a Marriage: Personal Needs and Frustration
Dr. Huizenga Inteview
Infidelity Healing: How to Stop an Affair
Internet Fantasies and Cheating
Getting Him/Her to “Talk” Part 2
What Gets Triggered in Me?
What Patterns Do I Want to Break Free From?
Keys to Surviving, Overcoming and Coping with the Affair
How do you Handle Emotional Distance?
Drawing the Line on Internet Cheating?
Making Shifts Help Build A Love You Can Trust
Traditional Self Help is Limited – Part 2
To Tell or Not to Tell….That is the Question
Infidelity: How to Make it Through an Affair with Faith
Confronting the Other Person and Affair #7
Where Do You Go for Support and Help?
Distance is a Way to Cope
The Gender Whys of Infidelity
Frustration in Marriage and the Affair
4 Reasons an Affair or Marital Crisis Kills your Self Esteem
Choices when Coping with Infidelity
Surviving Infidelity: What am I Learning about Self/Others?
Building a Love You Can Trust: 3 Key Points about Distinctions
Cheating Spouse: 7 Legitimate Motives for Spying
What you learn about Marriage at 6 will kill your marriage at 36 or 46
Erase the Pain of Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs Quickly
What if S/he Continues Seeing the OP?
Break Free From Emotional Suffering
Extramarital Affairs Make Some Stronger
Confronting the Other Person: Assessment and Readiness
Confronting the Other Person: “I Can’t Say No” Type of Affair
“I Want to Get Back at Him/Her” and Confronting the Other Person
Traditional Self Help is Limited – Part 3
Internet Cheating Comments and Stories
Discovering Internet Infidelity
Is the Distancing Spouse a Bad Person?
Guy Gets Revenge on Wife With Cement Truck