Affair #6: I Need to Prove My Desirability Affair
This type of affair may emerge out of nowhere. A seemingly “together” “good” person suddenly is having an affair. Affair #6 examines the deeper origins of this unexpected behavior and gives strategies to address it.
Evaluating ‘Peeling the Layers and Silence’
Take time to debrief. Do this during a quiet moment. Or, share what happened with a trusted friend, mentor or coach. Ask yourself: How successful was your messaging on a scale of 1-10, 10 being very successful? What was your spouse’s response in terms of words, body language, attitude and action? Were you surprised? What was most surprising?
Evaluating ‘Unconditioanlly Constructive’
The skill of Unconditionally Constructive fits most relationship situations. However what specifically did you gain by using Unconditionally Constructive with your spouse? How could you improve the next time? Download the evaluation worksheet.