Member – Boot Camp 2

Class with Dr. Huizenga

In this one hour class Dr. Huizenga presents Key Principles to guide you in surviving the affair and the best way to initially stop the infidelity. In the course you will learn:

• 3 common outcomes when the affair is brought into the open
• The MAJOR reason your spouse had an affair
• Why your spouse desperately needs you – but won’t admit it
• 5 subtle but effective ways to get your spouse to change
• 4 times when you should NOT “work on the relationship” together

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Download the Affair Recovery Scorecard
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Class with Dr. Huizenga

In this one hour class Dr. Huizenga presents Key Principles to guide you in surviving the affair and the best way to initially stop the infidelity. In the course you will learn:

• 3 common barriers that knock you off the recovery road
• Understanding and using your pain in recovery
• Overcoming your isolation
• How to powerfully and calmly confront your spouse with a “canned” statement
• What it means if your spouse refuses to change
• 3 major keys to evaluate readiness for change

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Download the Affair Recovery Scorecard
Download Background Reading for the Class

Type of Affair Chart

Take the next step in pinning down the type of affair facing you. This 70 question survey, with a rating system, helps you objectify the process of discovering the type of affair. Remember, knowledge is power.

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Marital Crisis

In the midst of your pain and uncertainty, I offer tools and concepts that will help you
endure, cope and perhaps even, create moments of hope and semi-joy for you. These 14 tips and strategies will enable you to see the world a little differently and approach yourself with more understanding and calm. Others, at the end, tell their stories of using these tips.

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6 Killer Mistakes

I outline for you, in this report, the 6 most prominent and common Killer Mistakes that prolong the affair and your misery and, in reality, probably strengthen the bond of the affair relationship (depending on the type of affair.) I want you to experiment with refraining from using any of these tactics for the next 7 days.

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Boot Camp Shifts

Examine the shifts you are making or desire to make. Note when they happen. Keep them in the top of your mind each day. Live with them for the next few days. Focus.

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Boot Camp Review Questions

What is changing and shifting? You may not think you or your situation is changing, but change and shifts are always in action. Review what you learned and what you were able to implement.

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