How to End the Infidelity Pain and Create a Deeper and Stronger Love

I Offer a Proven Process that has Helped Thousands End their Infidelity Nightmare and Find a Deeper and Stronger Love.

You are here because you are in pain.

I hear this (or something similar to this) time and time again, “I have NEVER felt this awful! The thought of my husband with someone else makes me sick to my stomach. I want to vomit. I can’t shake it. I can’t take it anymore!”

The infidelity of a once loved spouse reaches down and touches the core of everything that is dear, precious and important to you.

Love and trust are ripped from you. You feel alone, rejected, betrayed, devastated and scared.

You lost your love. You lost your dreams.

You fear you will lose more; family, friends, lifestyle and respect.

I’m offering an opportunity and tools to put an end to your nightmare and open the door to a deeper and stronger love.

That may seem impossible now, or at least like a monumental chore.

It’s not.

You merely have not found the right resources that are practical, proven and really work to end the infidelity and open the door to a true and lasting love.

Find What Really Works

I shifted away from my private practice as a MFT (Marriage and Family Therapist) in 2002 and moved online by writing the first ebook on infidelity, “Break Free From the Affair.” My computer went wild trying to keep up with the sales and the constant emails.

Suddenly the world, literally, welcomed me and I was able to reach thousands of hurting people PER MONTH!

Combine my experience as a Licensed MFT, with over 25,000 hours of direct client care and my online success specializing in infidelity for the past 18 years and you have a formula for success.

You have practical, powerful tools and concepts proven to WORK.

What I discovered and what helped so many can be yours.

You WILL end the pain, find relief and move toward permanent resolution of the infidelity.

3 Steps to End the Affair and
Welcome a Deeper Love

I discovered 3 Critical Steps to resolving the affair and creating a deep and strong love.

I’ve written numerous papers on this process, created scores of videos and developed dozens of tools.

Recently, I’ve organized the most helpful resources for these three critical steps into an online course, the Infidelity Recovery Center.

Critical Step #1

You Must Experience Initial Success

I coached a 60 year old woman who ranted and raged about her husband’s affair 20 years ago.

You can wallow in the mire of infidelity for a long long time. Ugly!

The reason: most initially fall back on their “default coping mechanism” which keeps them stuck in their awful feelings and paralyzing thoughts.

I want you to experience relief and get results in the first 48 hours. Yes this IS possible, as you move away from your default position.

You will feel better and your spouse will notice (and have to adjust.)

I offer two powerful tools in the “48 Hour Infidelity Boot Camp,” part of the online course in the Infidelity Recovery Center to help you do this.

Hi Dr. Bob Huizenga. I wish I had this last year. It would have saved me heartache and thousands of dollars, and my job and my career as an attorney. Thanks to you and your course for helping me, to keep me going, giving me strength, tools and techniques to confront this cheating man I called husband, whom l had held and cherished for so many years!

Nancy
Thank you for the Infidelity Recovery Center. It is the only thing that has brought some calm to my disturbing world.

Kathy

Critical Step #2

You Must Discover the Truth about Infidelity

You have been sold a bill of goods about infidelity.

Infidelity is NOT about “falling in love” with another person. It’s about something else.
He is not having an affair because you did not meet his needs. Needs are a bottomless pit!
He is not having an affair because your marriage went south. Cop out!
He is having a great time. Probably not!

These common myths and misconceptions, sold by media and well meaning people (including therapists) keep your stomach grinding and help your cheating spouse rationalize his behavior.

Discover the TRUTH about infidelity.

In the “48 Hour Infidelity Boot Camp,” level 2 of the Infidelity Recovery Center, I offer two pivotal classes (each an hour long) on “How to Stop the Affair: Introduction and Key Principles.”

Along with dozens of articles in the Infidelity Recovery Center, you begin to “rethink” infidelity.

Critical Step #3

You Must Develop and use a specific plan for your husband’s type of affair

Discovery of infidelity sends you tumbling into a new, frightening and confusing world.

You try persuading. You’re lucky if he grunts.
You tell him you will change and be a better person. He’s probably angry because you weren’t that before.
You suggest counseling and working on the marriage. Stonewall.
You plead, almost on your knees begging. He can’t wait to get away from you.
You rant and rage. Now he REALLY has an excuse to be with someone else.
You try tough love, an ultimatum or give a time line to shape up. Watch passive aggressive.

You struck out!

Now what?

You need a plan; but, not just any plan.

Know EXACTLY what to Say and Do

You need a plan that will hone in on exactly what to say and do that fits his type of affair.

Affairs are different. One size does not fit all.

Miss your target and you have a continued mess.

Hit the type of affair target and you hit healing gold.

Level 3 of the Infidelity Recovery Center is advanced in that, once you experience initial change, once you feel the calm of rethinking infidelity, you are prepared and ready to wisely examine the type of affair and with confidence ACT.

Your new found words and actions shake his infidelity tree.

Committing to these 3 steps Works.

Over the past 15 years and more, hundreds have taken the time to email me, call me or text me profusely thanking me for my resources.

With confidence I can say my success rate hovers around 90%.

I like those odds of helping you too.

Thank you Dr. Huizenga for your resources!! Your material is so jam packed with real direction and wisdom. Once again, I thank you, as you have helped me more that you will ever know for these past few years! Sincerely,

Barbara
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! I find your information extremely helpful and comforting. WOW! I have stopped any and all counseling, speaking to others like family and friends. I am using your materials as a step by step guide to recovery and knowledge. One source and nothing else… to many cooks in the kitchen and your stuff really is helping me regain control, THANK YOU! Just let me know that you received this and knowing you are there HELP A LOT!! THANK YOU BOB!

Chris

Yes, Dr. Huizenga. Send me my username and password to access the “Quickstart Package” (Levels 1-3) and the “Advanced Affair Recovery Level 4” of the “Infidelity Recovery Center”… for ONLY 3 monthly payments of $97.

It’s Not as Hard as You Think; It’s Counter Intuitive

Here’s an observation: when you are the betrayed, you go full blast.

You dig under every stone, look into every nook and cranny trying to find SOMETHING to stop the affair and bring him back.

You spend every waking moment racking your brain, trying to some up with some solution to this mountain of pain.

You are taught that when you have a problem, you are to work hard to solve it.

My counter Intuitive stance: you need not “work at it” or “make it happen,” you merely need to be YOU.

Thank you Dr. Huizenga. All the resources helped me in my healing after my husbands affair 2 years ago. It was such a struggle to "make him" see my point of view and see what he did to our family. The ironic thing is, I didn't HAVE to make him see anything, he already saw it, the view was hidden deep within him but he dug it out, eventually! They key was to let HIM dig for it! I used your methods and to my unbelief, it worked! 2 years later we have the best marriage we could of hoped for. Our communication is superb, the time we spend together is Intentional and without interruptions with electronics, we make love more and guess what, the OW still works in the same building! TRUST needs to be rebuilt, and it was. To this very day he assures me of his commitment to our marriage.

Carol

… HAS helped me keep my emotions under control. I tried talking with him a little last night, but he wasn’t very receptive; however, I didn’t receive the “blowup” response or just “walking away” with no communication from him that I had anticipated. I used a little of the Charge Neutral techniques. I believe this took him completely off guard. I also looked him square in the eye and HE actually lowered his. I couldn’t believe it!!! He couldn’t look me in the eyes. THAT has never happened before.

Natasha

It’s Never Too Late or Too Overwhelming

The pain may seem overwhelming. Each day becomes a challenge just to get out of bed.

It’s difficult to breath, to think clearly, to do the most simple task.

You’ve had it.

And, yet, many have taught me that their pain became their best motivator and open gate to a new life and new relationship.

Yes, Dr. Huizenga. Send me my username and password to access the “Quickstart Package” (Levels 1-3) and the “Advanced Affair Recovery Level 4” of the “Infidelity Recovery Center”… for ONLY 3 monthly payments of $97.

How to End the Infidelity Pain and Create a Deeper and Stronger Love